Well folks after 2 long months I am finally back in the city. When I got back from Rhode Island I had a whopping 12 hours home before packing my bags and getting on a plane for Arizona.
The bf and I got to take our first real long vacation together. Now I am between jobs right now so I could take as long as I want, but he is now full time at Apple so it’s a little tricky for him to take a vacation.
We flew out to AZ and spent the first few days just relaxing by the pool. We both tried (and kind of failed) to get really tan, met up with friends and family for lunches and dinners, played with the dogs, sang by my piano-it was a rough couple of days.
Then that weekend we got to head up to Mormon Lake (about an hour southeast of Flagstaff) for my family reunion. Our family reunions are no joke, they come every 3 years and I had to miss the last one. I didn’t want to miss another reunion and what’s more I was really excited to bring the bf to this epic occasion.
The reunion was fun, it was actually pretty tame by our standards, and the boy made it out alive. I think that means is one more group of relatives for him to meet and then he is fully inducted into the family.
Being home is such a joy for me, but I did have a stunning realization this last visit. I have now lived away from Arizona longer than I lived in Arizona. All my friends are gone and so much has changed in that state, I actually felt like a visitor. There were a number of days where the bf asked me what we were gonna do, and I just pulled a blank. First of all it AZ in July-ergo there’s nothing you can do outside-and also I don’t know what there is to do. I just wanna see my family and my plans end there.
We got a full week there, which was nice. Not enough for me, but it was good to have a full visit with so much family. Living on the opposite side of the country I really miss them and wish I could pop over more often.
After that we made our way to DC to spend a week with the bf’s family. The visit started out quite funny, because his dad’s car broke down on the freeway while taking us home, and I had to joy of cramming into what we will call the “back seat” of the tow truck and sit as my legs fell asleep during the half hour trip to the shop.
We wanted to make sure we were in DC because it was the bf’s birthday!!! The boy turned a happy 24 (I’m now dating an older man) and we got to celebrate it with his family. Our trip to DC was MUCH busier than the AZ leg mostly because we went to see so many people who weren’t particularly close to us.
We drove 3 hours to visit his grandma, about an hour to see our friend in a show, and about an hour to visit my younger brother in Quantico.
Catch up on the younger bro. America’s favorite son decided he wanted to spend this summer in Quantico Virginia attending officer training school. The boy is crazy. The summer has been a little rough for him. First of all he’s in Virginia in the summer…not pleasant for AZ boys who grew up without humidity.
Also there’s the fact that most of the people around him are crazy! He is being pushed to his physical and emotional limits every single day and it’s started to take its toll on him. I’m incredibly proud of him for being able to make it this long, and he’s almost made it to his graduation (2 more weeks). I loved getting to see him, and I think that he needed to see our faces just as much as we wanted to see his.
I was disappointed we only got a day with him, when we left the bf and I felt horribly guilty that we couldn’t take him for at least a night, or spoil him in some other way, but we had to head back to Maryland to drive to the bf’s family’s cabin in western Maryland.
Time seems to stop in this cabin; I don’t know what it is. Those days flew by in a flash and I don’t think I did a single thing but read, eat and sit on a boat. It was wonderful. It was the perfect way to end our 2 weeks.
Now we are back in the city and back to reality. It’s nice in many ways. I have been away from home for such a long time. I’ve been living out of a suitcase and I am ready to return to normalcy. Now the question becomes what is normalcy?
I actually in many ways feel like I have returned to the exact place where I was 1 year ago. I am jobless (until August 22) and looking for an apartment. I hate apartment hunting, but at least this time I have a place to launch from, and don’t have the pressure of trying to find a job haunting me.
Well that’s all for now folks. This was an incredibly abbreviated report of my break, but I believe no one needs much more detail. You might remember that last year around this time I also had a lot of free time, and that made for a lot of blog posts about a lot of feelings. You have been warned.
Jumping into the pool…incase you couldn’t tell
Ahhhhhh the house by the lake
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